How to Spice Up Your Blow Job
Men and women alike often find giving and receiving a blow job to be one of the most arousing sexual encounters. But it can become boring if the same routine is repeated every time. Whether you are the fellator or the recipient, spicing up your blow job experience can lead to a heightened sense of pleasure and satisfaction.
For the Fellator:
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- Start off Slow: Begin with soft, gentle strokes, increasing and decreasing your intensity as the recipient indicates.
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- Make use of your Hands: Your hands can be used to simulate the same movements you are making with your mouth while also caressing the recipient’s body and adding pressure to the head.
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- Explore Different Positions: Get creative and explore different positions that can help intensify the pleasure. Examples include the 69, the pretzel dip, the spread eagle and the kneel.
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- Introduce Toys: Incorporating a vibrator into your oral sex activities can add an unexpected spark of pleasure.
For the Recipient:
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- Breathe Deeply: Taking deep, slow breaths will help you relax and increase your arousal.
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- Set the Mood: Create an atmosphere that’s conducive to pleasure by dimming the lights, playing music or using candles.
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- Take Control: Try controlling the speed and depth of the movements with your hands or body so that the fellator can adapt to how you are feeling.
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- Get Creative: Try changing up your moans and verbalizations so as to fire up both your libido and imagination.
No matter what you do to spice up your blow job experience, communication is key. Establishing trust and expressing what you like results in incredible sex for both of you. So go ahead, get creative and enjoy the ride!